Not Your Whipping Boy: Breaking Free from a Spell of ControlRelationships are complex, and often, we find ourselves caught in situations where the balance of power isn't quite right. For some, this imbalance can feel like being under a spell—whether it's a man feeling controlled by a woman or a woman feeling trapped by a man. The emotional manipu

where blame often flies faster than understanding, it’s time to take a step back and reconsider our perspectives. We frequently see individuals blaming others for the actions of a few, perpetuating a cycle of negativity that affects our happiness and our communities. Whether in personal relationships or societal views, generalizing based on the